In today’s society, it seems as if it is becoming more and more common for women to watch porn.
Have you ever wondered why a woman that hid in the hidden corner of porn-watching doesn’t admit to it? I’ve uncovered the truth behind the denial.
But is it really? Maybe it’s just
more common for women to admit to watching it,
particularly if they mention that they only watch the “artsy” or “sensual” type
of porn.
Although this may be true, there is still an incredible amount of women
who feel the need to conceal their porn watching ways. Most men watch porn on a
regular basis. And most men know that women do, too. So why the denial?.(Now try this How Do the Ladies Like P'ornography?)
So, what did I do? I sat myself down and did some self-reflecting on
this issue. I even got the help of a few close girlfriends that I know who
watch it too.
Why women deny watching porn
We’ve compiled a list of all the different reasons why some women feel
the need to keep their porn watching habits in lock down mode. Many of my friends have questioned me about his time and
time again. So I’ve decided to not only shut them up, but also shed some light
on this seemingly never-ending mystery.
1. We’re embarrassed. This stems from watching porn
being considered taboo. It’s not something that women are “supposed” to be
doing – in a
traditional sense. So we get embarrassed for people to know that we do watch
it.
We’re also embarrassed because viewing porn kind of goes hand in hand
with masturbation and being perverse, particularly if we go into the specifics
of what kind of porn we watch. Many people still think that the type of porn
you watch is the type of sex that you want to be having. That’s not always
true.
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2.It’s still considered taboo. While watching porn may be lightening up when it comes
to just how “wrong” it is to society, there are still people who consider this
extremely taboo. But for some reason, it’s more wrong for women to watch it
than for men. Yay for double standards!
So, we don’t tell anyone. No girl wants to be viewed as someone who
engages in something that’s considered taboo. We don’t want the label that is
associated with watching porn.
3. It’s considered unladylike. We’re girls! We’re not supposed to eat too much,
have short hair, burp in public, have hair in certain places, or watch porn
Society’s stereotype of women being only a certain way – that way being their
preconceived perception of “proper” – has hindered a woman’s freedom of
expression. We feel that if we step outside of that ladylike image, people will
view us as impure and undesirable.
4. We fear the judgment. “Oh my gosh! She watches porn? She must be
promiscuous. Believe it or not, this is
the reaction from a lot of girls who find out that other girls watch porn. But
really, they probably watch it too!
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Not only are we fearful of judgment from other girls, but what about the
men? If they find out we like to watch two strangers grinding their genitals
together, most of their minds immediately start thinking that we must put out
easily – a
thought no girl wants any guy to be thinking of them.
5. Seance of Privacy. Some women may not even care about what society
thinks *just as no one should*. For them, it’s more about their own privacy.
What women do behind closed doors can stay behind closed doors if they
so choose. They may just keep it to themselves because it’s like their own
little guilty pleasure *likewise*. You don’t see every exhausted mother who
purges on snickers bars she has hidden in her underwear drawer telling the
world about it afterwards, do you?
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6.We think that it could give bad
image about us. Most of the time,
porn is associated with being perverted or sexually preoccupied. Once people
know you watch porn, they think you do it every chance you get.
For men, this isn’t too much of a problem. After all, the porn industry
revolves mostly around men, and them watching it is considered normal. For
women, however, it can make people think that she’s so in touch with her
sexuality that she may border on sexual deviance.
7. To keep their downstairs a mystery. I told one of my guy friends that I watch porn, he
immediately asks me if I masturbate? They also
7 ask what kind of videos I like best and many more questions that are
just too personal.
If a woman responds honestly to men’s questions about her porn habits,
this gives the men an inside look into a world that we just think should be
kept to ourselves or to our significant others. Women like to keep their
privates and what they do with their privates a secret from men. Men will then
be more intrigued with a woman if they have to use their imagination.
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8. Because other women don’t admit to it. Didn’t your Mamma ever ask you, “Well, if your
friends jumped off a bridge, would you, too?” This is basically the same thing.
Peer pressure, that is.
Nobody likes to feel like they’re really different. So if one woman says
she doesn’t watch porn because “that’s gross,” or “it’s a guy thing,” then
chances are, neither will the other. This leads to a never-ending chain
reactions of girls just hiding the truth about them viewing other people having
sex on screen.
9. We just don’t want you to know. Sometimes, there’s really no reason in
particular. Watching strangers getting down and dirty for someone else’s
viewing pleasure just isn’t something that other people need to know you do.
And that’s perfectly fine! Everyone has secrets, and
some women prefer to keep this as one of theirs.
Each woman has her own reason for keeping quiet about
her porn watching ways. So if a woman tells you she doesn’t watch it, just
accept that answer, and don’t question her further.
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1 comments:
yes it is true most women dont admit it at all